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Dead Flies

There were dead flies littering the floor of the indoor track today. As I struggled through my slow jog I wondered if it was a sign that all of the monitoring spirits in my life have been sent on their miserable way.

Kiing Curry

1 hour ago2 min read

B is for Built Up, Braided Bundles - Afro Hair ABC's

The Afro Hair ABC's a decolonized coursework and flash card set for Afro Hair and Black bodies.

Kiing Curry

Oct 41 min read

A is for Antenna, Afro, Autonomic - Afro Hair ABC's

The Afro Hair ABC's a decolonized coursework and flash card set for Afro Hair and Black bodies.

Kiing Curry

Oct 42 min read

Quarter 4/2025 with Bespokecurry

I cannot believe we are in the quarter 4 of 2025 with Bespokecurry, time continues to be a strange ting. My writing here has been limited...

Kiing Curry

Oct 43 min read

olay and friends - Laverne Cox

the Olay and friends panel about Laverne Cox and intimate relationship conservative yt men. when I say I want nothing to do with LGBTIA, this panel is the exact reason why. accountability where? i am queer and my politic is queer. That “q” for me is separate from the rest of those letters. which means who i am and what i am is never connected to the state and ytness. the state has never changed, it is still formed on anti Blackness, binary imagination and miso

Kiing Curry

Aug 67 min read

heart break hotel

yesterday i had to undergo emergency surgery to have my appendix removed, I was back in the emergency room this AM because my heart beat is much, much lower than normal. i will have to visit a cardiologist this week.

Kiing Curry

Jun 291 min read

posin with plants

I grew up around Black folx who grew things. my granny had an orchard of peaches in her backyard and her house plants were behemoth. them people who raised me often had a garden. by the time the pandemic hit, plants were a place i could be and know myself via how I cared for them. plant shops with outdoor space were some of the first spaces that were open and safely accessible when we came out of lockdown.

Kiing Curry

Jun 12 min read

The Sacred Incantations Oracle Deck

the sacred incantations oracle deck is a project of enfleshed. oracle cards to begin engaging a trans praxis and lens over your life i honestly needed this deck when it arrived yesterday.

Dom(Free) Tarot

Kiing Curry

Jun 182 min read

two eyes encircle by two heiroglyph egyptian bodies and xray over one eye and the words the dom(free) s(cool)

Community Building - The Dom(free) S(cool) + Exploration Year

The Dom(Free) S(cool) is an exploration in non verbal community building, it is an experimental coursework. a space where embodiment and discernment are built, not by talking, but in learning to understand our own personal rhythms through non verbal engagement.

The Dom(free) S(cool)

Kiing Curry

May 219 min read

Belly Me (fatphobia)

being uber small or uber big are one in the same. they are both generational traumas that are connected to the lack of not having enough. both are forms of malnourishment.

The Fatlaxy

Kiing Curry

May 174 min read