Quarter 4/2025 with Bespokecurry

I cannot believe we are in the quarter 4 of 2025 with Bespokecurry, time continues to be a strange ting.

My writing here has been limited over the last couple of months, there are multiple reasons for why.

I have been focused on my body post surgery and creating a foundation of caring for my body in the same way that I run my mouth.

Walking it like I talk it, quite literally. I expect this to be a slow journey as I get back to a me I have never know. I am jogging and doing resistance training 5 days a week. We are 12 weeks in and I am looking forward to the next 12 weeks.

My posts here are not engaged and until they are consistently, by subscribers and those who actually mean to support me, and be in community with me, I am not going to keep producing simply for the sake of doing so.

I have subscriptions available starting at $6 a month. I currently have 3 subscriptions at $11 a month I would like t get that up to 10 persons.

I write to connect, to find those that are ready to bring theory out of the clouds and ground it in the practicality of your life. I write because I have a perspective that is unique and all my own, the result of a life split from its indigeneity and consumed by modernity. There are many many reasons that I share my voice.

Most of those reasons have been ignored and abused. I have had people here subscribing with the aim to cause me harm both family members, friends, and enemy alike.

Do not subscribe to this website if you have an intention that is meant to cause me harm.

Do not subscribe if you do not have the capacity to actually engage and be open and honest.

I am not looking for followers.

This is about learning to build the discernment that we perform but have no ability to embody for ourselves.

In Janaury of 2026 I will be headed to South Africa thanks to a trans grant I received.

I will be spending the rest of the year fundraising for this trip and I require your support.

I have a goal of $3500 that will need to be raised before the end of the year.

Please check out the New Exploration page to learn more

There have also been new and ongoing changes to the website.

The Bespoke Book which is my online portfolio is under construction and will be completed throughout the month of October.

Litm(us) - The Afro Hair ABC's and 123's and online coursework and flash card set will happen November 2nd via zoom and tickets are $35.

The Afro Hair ABC's have launched via IG as marketing for the November 2nd event. If you follow me via Instagram I am asking you to please make a commitment through December to consistently share, re post and engage with intention and care.

Bead and Cowrie Jewelry is also another way you can support my fundraising efforts. There will be new drops and pop ups.

You can also donate and get you friends and family to support as well and donation links can be found on the exploration page.

Consultation and Afro Hair offerings will also be changing in the coming months, so please stay tuned.

If you engaged this post please leave a comment and let me know.