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Dead Flies
There were dead flies littering the floor of the indoor track today. As I struggled through my slow jog I wondered if it was a sign that all of the monitoring spirits in my life have been sent on their miserable way.

Kiing Curry
1 hour ago2 min read


B is for Built Up, Braided Bundles - Afro Hair ABC's
The Afro Hair ABC's a decolonized coursework and flash card set for Afro Hair and Black bodies.

Kiing Curry
Oct 41 min read


A is for Antenna, Afro, Autonomic - Afro Hair ABC's
The Afro Hair ABC's a decolonized coursework and flash card set for Afro Hair and Black bodies.

Kiing Curry
Oct 42 min read


Quarter 4/2025 with Bespokecurry
I cannot believe we are in the quarter 4 of 2025 with Bespokecurry, time continues to be a strange ting. My writing here has been limited...

Kiing Curry
Oct 43 min read


olay and friends - Laverne Cox
the Olay and friends panel about Laverne Cox and intimate relationship conservative yt men.
when I say I want nothing to do with LGBTIA, this panel is the exact reason why.
accountability where?
i am queer and my politic is queer. That “q” for me is separate from the rest of those letters.
which means who i am and what i am is never connected to the state and ytness.
the state has never changed, it is still formed on anti Blackness, binary imagination and miso

Kiing Curry
Aug 67 min read


heart break hotel
yesterday i had to undergo emergency surgery to have my appendix removed, I was back in the emergency room this AM because my heart beat is much, much lower than normal. i will have to visit a cardiologist this week.

Kiing Curry
Jun 291 min read


posin with plants
I grew up around Black folx who grew things.
my granny had an orchard of peaches in her backyard and her house plants were behemoth. them people who raised me often had a garden.
by the time the pandemic hit, plants were a place i could be and know myself via how I cared for them.
plant shops with outdoor space were some of the first spaces that were open and safely accessible when we came out of lockdown.

Kiing Curry
Jun 12 min read
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The Sacred Incantations Oracle Deck
the sacred incantations oracle deck is a project of enfleshed.
oracle cards to begin engaging a trans praxis and lens over your life
i honestly needed this deck when it arrived yesterday.

Kiing Curry
Jun 182 min read


555-5555 - breaking the cycle
i haven’t been home in 5 years.
i use the word home loosely, it was a house that i knew.
i broke the cycle.
it’s not something i thought i’d be able to say or that I would need to say.

Kiing Curry
Jun 183 min read


P(ride) Pride
pride was a riot
but what is pride currently?
a commodified mess, that aint got nada to do with enriching your soul from inside out
but rather all outside
no in
Black pride too

Kiing Curry
Jun 42 min read


Community Building - The Dom(free) S(cool) + Exploration Year
The Dom(Free) S(cool) is an exploration in non verbal community building, it is an experimental coursework. a space where embodiment and discernment are built, not by talking, but in learning to understand our own personal rhythms through non verbal engagement.

Kiing Curry
May 219 min read


Reset, Yet Again
my energy is for me and me only. I am cutting the flow now. I am not the harsh ugly thing that y’all love to make me out to be.

Kiing Curry
May 156 min read


a move on ya’lls heart - non verbally - dom(free) tarot
to be dom(free)
is to be
talk free
letting the body of water and the heart lead

Kiing Curry
Apr 292 min read


notes on energetic thrust - to be feral AF
community takes energy and says is something sacred, feral, something that each ting and being creates that is unique.

Kiing Curry
Apr 283 min read


direct retrograde - love heart cheat code
mercury retrograde has finally gone direct and while this astro season has been particularly wild, this shadow period after this

Kiing Curry
Apr 76 min read


hollow prophets
It’s giving Hook, colonial imagination only ever impressed the inhabitants of neverneverland. A “paramecium brain munching on your own mucus

Kiing Curry
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The Twins - Marassa
when I come back in may, after getting us moved, and taking a social media break...

Kiing Curry
Mar 262 min read


The Ancestors Call to War and Tech(know)logy
41 is the new 21. I am completely and totally brand new. I spent 35 years blind to myself, literally locked away from me.

Kiing Curry
Mar 215 min read


(collect)ives and community healing
After processing over this last week I am realizing just how much danger we are in as a community of folx that need healing

Kiing Curry
Mar 182 min read


the lgbtqia cosplay
we are more concerned about the performance of queerness than the embodiment of what it means to be queer.

Kiing Curry
Mar 52 min read


Help Us Secure Safe Housing
help us secure safe housing

Kiing Curry
Feb 192 min read


pisces season AI
as pisces, the season of all things dreamy and ethereal kicks off, I wanna talk about AI.

Kiing Curry
Feb 183 min read


Litm(us) L(I)te - Bringing ritual to community praxis
community requires practice

Kiing Curry
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